Its kind of amazing what even a little self confidence can do. While the kids were outside today, I decided I want to try to get some sort of color on my back and belly, so I pulled my tank top up under my bra and took my arms out of the straps, and laid there on the blanket in my front yard like that. I was completely comfortable! It was kind of a weird feeling! I didn't worry about anyone seeing me like that. Jade freaked when she 1st saw me taking my arms out of the tank and bra straps because she thought I was taking the shirt off! lol